Ex

Howdy morning people, rise and shine!

1st entry of August and here's hoping that the momentum will pick up and let the juices flowing. In a creative and positive tone (crossing almost all fingers). I was watching this TV documentation about how series of events can lead to a burst of emotional state which drives people to express themselves either by writting (in this era, blogging, composing song, poems), painting, basically arty stuff. For normal people that feeling would pass, but there are certain exception where some people will be continously feed through their brain with this feeling and keeps on churning out series of expression due to the impulsive urge to do just that. Who ever says that TV is not an enriching knowledgeable tool should be locked away. My mom not included, she just don't like me being a zombie, lol.

Got side tracked again, hehehe...well you know me. What I wanted to say or share with the lot of you, is ok to befriend your ex (boyfriend/girlfriend/wifey/hubby - not ex-machina the comic book or appleseed story).
Me? I got tons of excuses and tons (how much does an excuse weight anyway?) of way how to dealt with the ex (that does not mean I like doing it or having lotsa ex's...it's life experience). My first reaction would be to keep my distance away from them...as far and as long time as possible. Why do I do that? Simple. After you tell someone you love that you no longer want to be a part of their present and future life, do you expect that people to have a field and joyous day? I don't think so...but that depends on how things were prior to the break-up appointment. If both of you were kewl with it then it might not be that easy but if its like a battle field and you can't be in the same room together, well that is another story all together. Ah ha you said. If things are kewl, why the break up? Well kiddies I don't have every answer to every question...keep searching.
Plus, I'll be helping them move on with their life. Most people thought that if the ex stil lingers around and see them every day, then things will eventually work out and they could be together again. ErrrrrKKKK! Does not work that way my friend. I'm not being a pessimist, I'm just trying to help people move on with their life. God knows how hard it must be to be out of the comfort zone but if that is the only way for us to see the big picture, so be it. I would gladly do that over and over again. I give myself 1-2 years after the break up before I approach the ex again...or never in some cases. But then we get into this place where we would remeniscene the good ole days and BAM! end up in bed and feeling misreable afterwards (that's just me..I don't know about the lot of you and how you would feel).
Yes, I don't make it a habit of seeing the ex because of that. I'm not a good person, but I try my best to limit my swaying ways now that I got what I'm looking for (another story for another day hehehehe).

I got a lot to say about this issue, will continue later as I need to pack my bags and check out and go for an inspection at 8 am. Be writting soon...have a pleasent day and see ya!